Top 6 Guaranteed Ways To Have Success On Tinder

Last updated: November 7, 2023

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Top 6 Guaranteed Ways To Have Success On Tinder

Did you download Tinder, but the magic — namely a hot girl — hasn’t come into your life yet? Well, it’s because this dating app is not a remedy for loneliness, but it can be so if you know how to be successful on Tinder. Here are the top Tinder rules for guys to catch a pretty chic.

Tinder Do’s and Don’ts

Tinder tips and tricks include things you MUST do and things you MUST NOT do. You don’t want to look like a creep or loser, right? Then, check on the guide.

Do’s

Make a Good Tinder profile
First of all, if a girl is interested in finding someone, she will look through your profile to learn about your basic info. If you have nothing on your bio, how should she know you have at least one thing in common with her? Therefore, you should know how to make a successful Tinder profile.
Secondly, a man who is too lazy to write several sentences about himself is not worth attention because he will not bother to make a good conversation.
Your bio should also be catchy. Maybe you have an unusual but interesting hobby or are good at writing rhymes. Take advantage of your skills.

Upload the Best Pictures of Yourself
If you wonder how to be successful on Tinder as a guy, the answer is in good profile photos because there is no success on Tinder without good pics.
First of all, people evaluate whether you fit their physical preferences based on your photos.
Secondly, a good picture is important because we all subconsciously read other’s faces to feel whether the person is good for us. To make people think you are a worthy match, try to take good photos where you slightly smile. It’s better not to make either grumpy or goofy faces — the first ones will make people think you are just not a very good person and the second one will point out that you can’t guarantee serious commitment.
Last but not least reason there should be a pic — is to not come across an ex.

Make a Good Initial Conversation
You got a match, congratulations! Now, don’t ruin everything, and think of how to initiate a conversation successfully! The best way is to write something neutral or based on your common interests in your bios, but never start a conversation by commenting on her appearance because it will make her think you care only about how she looks.

Don’ts

Never Lie about Yourself
You are 18, not 26? Write it. You never read William Thackeray’s works? Then don’t claim you have. Lying is the worst thing you can do when looking for a partner. If your date finds out you lied about yourself, they will assume you can lie about greater things and might cheat on them in the future. Also, what is the point of being dishonest? If they like the real way you are, they will be with you. If they find out the truth about you and decide to leave you, it will be time spent in vain.
Don’t Answer for Ages or With an “I Don’t Care” Attitude
If she asks questions about you but you never ask her about herself; if you decide to play cold and answer her once in an hour — then why are you even on Tinder? This dating app is designed to help people find partners and ease this search in the busy world. Why should anyone sacrifice for a random guy from the Internet if he doesn’t even bother to show a bare minimum of attention? If you don’t want your Tinder to match to think like this, avoid being indifferent.
Don’t Be Rude
It’s a simple rule, but many guys forget it and try to be over-masculine in a conversation with Tinder girls, swearing, making dirty comments, and then saying “It was a joke.” You will look like a joke if you miss on being polite.

Pro tips for Tinder:

Never overshare personal info too quickly: the gold-diggers know how to use Tinder, too.
If you are on a date with one Tinder match and your other match also wants to schedule a meeting at this time, never say you go on a date with somebody else. Such a competition will probably draw a person away.
Don’t put group photos on your main profile. Tinder chics won’t know who you are in the photo.

FAQ

How Often Should I Swipe Right to Increase My Chances of a Match?

There is no exact number of swipes you have to make to get a match on Tinder. Mass swiping is a big no if you don’t want lower-quality matches. Also, the popularity density in your area is important: if there are many people, you can be a bit more picky; if there are not so many offers, swipe right more to catch at least someone.

How Can I Identify and Avoid Potential Catfish or Fake Profiles?

Some red flags can mean a profile is fake:
– When they have polished or stock-like photos
– When their stories are inconsistent
– When they never want to have video/phone calls or never send audio or video messages
– When they ask about your financial details

Is it Beneficial to Use Tinder’s Premium Features like Tinder Gold or Tinder Plus?

If you would want to have the following features, you need to invest in the premium Tinder versions:
– opportunity to undo left swipes
– no advertisements
– increased profile visibility and others

What are Some Common Mistakes People Make on Tinder that Hinder their Success?

What stops your success with Tinder is not very high-quality photos where your face and other appearance features are not visible. Also, a poorly written or absent bio contributes to an unsuccessful Tinder journey.

Can I Use Tinder for Relationships, or is it just for Casual Encounters?

People use Tinder for different relationship purposes, including long-term commitment. It’s important to always discuss your goals or even state them in your bio to attract people who want the same as you.

Naomi Howarth

Greetings, I’m Naomi Howarth — an author, illustrator, and designer based in London. With around 5 years of experience as a graphic designer and author, I’ve broadened the info horizons of many guidelines and articles on relationships. Daily I pull off colorful and informative graphs as well as articles for the current website so that statistics and research don’t seem too boring for people.